This is the best video I have even seen to explain what is Autism?

I always hear in forum how do I explain to my family one what autism means. Well this is best video I have found to date to explain autism in positive manner.

On unrelated note in wake of Disney Scandal

I have been rather obsessed with Ursula lately. After Disney scandal about downsizing her doll. I ironically came across Disney article saying Disney character was based on famous drag Queen Divine. Which is kinda cool. I didn't care for Ursula much as child. I was more and Ariel girl. Not because of who she was but how she looked. But the adult woman in me respect Ursula more. She wasn't afraid to go after what she wanted. She went to far mind you being full on evil. But she had fun was flamboyant and generally seemed like she was having a blast. She didn't have man didn't want one. She'd rather have world domination.  While Ariel cried whole movie over getting a man and keeping him.I am weird as an adult I kinda find myself routing for villain more they general seem like they would be more fun to hang with.  http://celebs.answers.com/movies/10-real-life-inspirations-behind-these-iconic-disney-characters?param4=fb-ca-de-entertainment&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=ssde-all#slide=3

What is stimming?

Stimming, you’ve heard the phrase from other parents who have a child on the spectrum but what does it mean? Stimming is a shortened version of the phrase self-stimulatory behavior. This type of behavior can range from arm flapping and repetitive behavior, all which are out of the ordinary for us, but are actually soothing actions for a child on the spectrum. As well another form of stimming is chewing or sucking on clothing. 

As many stimming actions may not seem “normal” or are not socially acceptable, we should understand what about it that makes our children happy and relaxed. In doing so we then can find a different action that is more acceptable in society that still gives them that same happy feeling.My son used to chew on necklace clothes etc. I went on autism forum and read about other children doing the same thing. A great way to redirect them from not chewing on clothes it they have item I had never heard of called chewy jewel or chewy jewel.  Lessening or modifying stims can be tricky, but several approaches may be helpful. Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) may help individuals to eliminate or modify some of their stimming. Occupational therapy is another useful tool.

In some cases, stimming can be reduced with medications that address underlying issues of anxiety. Finally, some people with autism can learn through practice and coaching to either change their stims (squeeze a stress ball rather than flap, for example) or engage in excessive stimming only in the privacy of their own homes.

Read more at http://blog.theautismsite.com/what-is-stimming/#C710C2VTIS1SuEmm.99

What is it now means to me as a mother when I hear word "stylized" When is come to children characters.

I usually post about special needs posts. But I saw something today I just needed to talk about. I grew up watching Sailor moon.  Serena in general because she out of all the anime looked like me. Not the alien spindly body like me but more like a real girl she talked about wanting to lose weight about boys etc. She was a little boy crazy and not the best of role model but to me she was one I most related to at the time. Aside from usual teen stuff and fighting alien bad guys :) They brought out reboot. I was really excited. I had actually shown old version to my son. I know I might get payback later for it but I am not huge fan of gender stereo typing show they watch.

I used to be HUGE fan of this and was really excited until I saw the sketches.I have actually shown the original show to my kindergarten sons. I wanted to share with them stuff I liked when I was little and I liked how they weren't twirling around in belly shirts Aside from Serena who was fun it had some good female role model.They really like it. I don't mean to rain on anyone's parade I just don't like direction it is going. Sailor moon was only anime with more realistic body type. She was almost on the pudgy side for anime standards at least. Which makes sense because she always whining about need to go one diet which is running gag for better part of series.

First Disney actually make villain Barbie dolls makes a rather rotund Urula size two because they want her "more stylized."Which baffles me why they even used her in first place. Why not leave her out rather than make size "24" a size "2" Now they are stretching out Sailor Moon body out to unrealistic proportions.They even rebooted Candy Land character to make them even skinnier. Same went for rainbow bright. When does it end? I love sailor moon but I might pass on this. Now term "stylized" keeps popping up to justify these changes. Now when I hear it seems to be on par with saying made skinnier without offending parents.They didn't change anything about her really outfit are the same but now she grown a foot and lost a lot of weight. As mom this sadden me because this isn't what i grew up with.  It isn't near a normal body type they can achieve. We as parent are accepting body acceptance isn't getting better it's getting worse. On step at a time our childhood is getting re written and plus sized bodies will not be a part of it eventually under pr term more "stylized"in short meaning replacing fatter model with skinnier models and them reselling it to us as something completely new.

Then 

Now

http://www.themarysue.com/new-sailor-moon-cast/

Now a even more drastic design change. Let not look at the heroes we loved but the villains. Take Ursula. She was only plus sized female character in the Disney universe. I wasn't biggest fan of her as child I really like her confidence as adult woman. She wasn't the type to give up everything for a boy and knew what she wanted. As an adult woman I related her more than Ariel. he's evil sure but no one perfect lol. By no means am I saying this is healthy body type. But neither is the one that follow this design.  This year they re wrote history yet again with Disney collect and I'll show you want mean.

Then

now

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2166609/The-Little-Mermaids-Ursula-gets-new-tiny-waistline.html

Daily commodities by baby bus identifying item around the house

 It has two aspects the flash cards as well as object finding game

I like this app for numerous reasons it help to identify item around the house. I has a find item play style to it to help reinforce learning rather than relying solely on flash cards which is has as well. You learn name of everyday item and then you need to find them through out the house. Which is great for labeling hand eye coordination etc. My boy love the little bear and it make learning fun. Once you find item is has verbal prompt that tell child items name to help reinforce labels. .  click tio go to app

Here is an example of flash card provided

Here is example of the game you search from room to room
 trying to find object listed on left hand side

my favorite learning app of all time and why

1. First Then
This program is great for any mother with android phone or also available on iphone for portable visual schedules on the go. I usually use this for mostly morning routine when boy are getting ready for school. It is highly interactive. you can do one image at a time or use first then model. As well as you add pictures you have option of recording your voice saying different activity so they can use verbal cues on the touch picture. I posted a few visual schedules and I was looking online at special need apps and I highly recommend this one. You don't need to have rolls of picture on string to flip through to show each step . I used to have routine printed on wall but  had to reprint for certain order. This app has picture step you can search and add with touch of button.Has different view for different types of difficulty. There is one picture at time then first then and list option.I used this and find it really great to create everyday routines. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.apps.gk.firstthen

There is first then view

Then list setting if they can follow more instruction

You can set timer to make them more aware of time or leave off under settings.

2. Endless abc.

Here is one of the best apps I have seen yet. When they touch individual letter it play sound letter makes phonetically.Once it in place it tell you letter.  Then one they have spelt out word it say it has cute animation and explanation of the word.It is free to try but whole alpabeht cost about $3 You can find it in both android and itunes.https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.originatorkids.EndlessAlphabet

3. My day with wh. This is great app I use with son Gabriel. It has colorful social story. The social story show example of who what where questions  it about $3.04 on google play https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.TouchAutism.MyDayWHWords&hl=en

Another neat feature is there is button you can press after story that has example of who what when where questions to help with conversation building. It helps  reinforce what they learnt in social story.

4 Staying safe social story. It pretty safe to say anything by touch autism will top my list as favorite apps. Not only does it have social stories that are extremely useful but also and engaging color and interactive component to each app.  This app is made up of two community safety social stories. One story focuses on safer strangers and buildings, and the other focuses on what to do if you are lost.The “stranger danger” style of story sometimes frightens children, and causes them to not ask for help if they are lost, for fear that all strangers are bad. Safer strangers and social stories focuses on which strangers are “safer” and good to go to for help, such as police officers, check-out clerks, librarians or paramedics. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.TouchAutism.StayingSafe


4. Super why adventures. This is very engaging app the has multiple puzzle children can cycle through.Based on popular tv show Super why. Has video review above and screen shots. App played by my son Gabe who is asd. I highly recommend app for letter recognition. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.pbskids.swhyabc

5.Tracing Abc This app is found on google play. I had Gabe draw with stylus it follow one line at a time.It has many great option let you practice letter number words as well as you can add your own word on menu. I used that option to help teach Gabriel to write his own name on the tablet. Little stars light up as you follow direction. Bright engaging colors. He actually enjoys using this programhttps://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.remarkable.tracingabcfull

Tracing abc

This app is found on google play. I had Gabe draw with stylus it follow one line at a time.It has many great option let you practice letter number words as well as you can add your own word on menu. I used that option to help teach Gabriel to write his own name on the tablet. Little stars light up as you follow direction. Bright engaging colors. He actually enjoys using this program.

You can practice individual letter words or numbers. In this part he using number option Little stars light up as you follow direction. One finish it will say name of number you just wrote. A drop down image will appear showing visual example of number complete like in the video for example he traced number two and it display picture of two shoes. As well as written version on the number you just traced.

Gabriel is tracing out letter two